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WHAT TIME DO YOU NORMALLY SLEEP?
I normally sleep around 9 plus. I need to take care of my health like a baby, now that I have a child to look after. As new parents, we used to argue a lot back then when there is no helper due to having to look after him 24 hrs. So, it is really tiring looking after him. But, we still love him. We hope to put him to daycare before helper leaves. My life is very simple, I enjoy drawing and spending time with loved ones. Not many people know me as I prefer a private life away from the fake and gossip world. There aren't many real ones left. I am not even close to my in laws so I don't mind a loner husband too. It is best if he only has me and no one else.
It is important to rest first because you can always try again tomorrow.
SHOULD WE BE HONEST?
It is important to be honest to your spouse, as they are going to stay with you for the rest of their lives. They put their hopes and trust, basically everything into you. No matter what we have done, honesty can mininize the guilts in our hearts. It is really hard to stay faithful, but the least you could do is being honest. If you truly love them, just tell them and they may be able to forgive you. If you are not able to stay committed, learn to let go in the marriage so that it is only fair for your partner.
I truly wish my husband was the one who cheated. At least, I know that he still loves me more than those women out there. The hurt has been done, but we could learn to forgive and let go both physically and mentally.
DO YOU HAVE MALE FRIENDS
Simply put, no. I do not have a circle of them like married women does. However, I am straight. I am just not at all good with guys, and is very likely to chase them away. I am personally shy, prefers to be in my own circle and waiting for the right one who will love us and take care of us. My husband loves me very much, so he will understand if there is another one for me. He will sign the papers, should there be a right man in my life. He hope I could feel happy and satisfy in love and marriage, so he is willing to sacrifice. I love my husband too. However, he knows that he couldn't give me the needs I desire which is why he will forgive what I have done to him. He does have medical issues so he hope that I will be in good hands should anything happens to him.
I had my first child since 2023 and since then, I am still learning how to be a mother. I am not in a hurry, but possibly open for a long term partner in the long run.
ONE NIGHT STAND...HOW TO GET OVER IT?
It is called one night stand for a reason. You either do it and never meet the person anymore which is why you may regret your actions. Most of us cheated, including me. I finally gave in to temptations even though I used to have opportunities from an ex before. I am not a God. I have my desires, needs and temptations. So no matter how long I endure, I will give in eventually. My partner forgave me, and will continue our marriage because he really loves me. Even if I cheat again, he will still take care of us. One night stand, is for two parties to obtain physical needs should their partners failed to do so. While affairs are ongoing. One night stand, is easier to forgive than affairs. So, please forgive your partner if they ever did something wrong. It is not easy to get over it, because there could be emotional bonds towards each other. Forgetting is harder than moving forward, but you will get over it on time because this creates a special memory in us as a gift to a better tomorrow.
Always learn from our lessons, and refrain until you truly found the person you want to spend your entire life with.
DO YOU BELIEVE IN CHEATING?
I personally do not believe in cheating, so I don't have a lot of boyfriends in my life. I would like to believe that sex is meant for someone you truly love and trust. However, humans have their needs so it is understandable if they give in to temptations. Cheating means that they are getting something from someone else which their partners are unable to give them. It is not completely your fault if you didn't mean to cheat. Marriages are in fact hard to maintain which explains why cheating often occurs.
It is best to talk to your partner, and let them understand your desires. Learn to forgive in this circumstances because the one who doesn't give may also be at fault. However, sex is not everything in a marriage. If you still love them, limit your desires and practice self control.
DESCRIBE MORE ABOUT YOURSELF
I am a stay at home mother of one. Unlike other married females, I do not like to socialize much and prefers to be on my own. I enjoy art, coffee and spending time with my loved ones. I am actually a simple female unlike those society kinds. I don't need branded, and expensive things to survive. I don't need to dress and impress because I enjoy being myself. I am free from diseases, and knows how to protect myself from the complicated society outside. I do not smoke and drink, nor do I like the night life.
Like many females, I would love to have a man who truly loves and dotes on me. To me, marriages are life long commitment. It is important, to be open to each other and understand each other needs. Forgiving is also the key to walk hand in hand till eternity.
Lots Of Hugs, Aeris Draws